Happy Birthday to me!

For my birthday I share my perception of A Real Man with you. All I ask in return is your help to achieve this...

A Real Man
A real man should know how to do a couple of things. He must believe in and recognize loyalty. Of course no man is perfect but he must know how to be honest with himself and others. Honest attempts to achieve these traits will be highly recognized by his maker God almighty and he will be blessed abundantly.
A real man should know how to keep a relationship and under fortunate circumstances keep a job. A real man has influence. A real man should know how to keep his business and his personal life separate. A real man should know how to keep out of debt. A real man should know when to keep his mouth shut. A real man should know how and when to keep his dick in his pants. A real man should know how to consistently cater to his responsibilities and how to deal with his responsibilities. A real man must know how to love. A real man must know how to forgive. A real man must not be envious nor jealous. A real man must know how to keep good company and persuade positivity. A real man must NOT live for himself but for others. A real man must know how to say No! A real man isn't easily influenced. A real man is real to himself and others. A real man is ambitious. A real man is faithful. A real man is Godly. A real man has self control. A real man is a responsible role model for young ones and others around him. A real man isn't bitter/angry. A real man is fearless. A real man has zeal. A real man has love and respect for his creator and his creator's creations. A real man knows how to make a woman love, trust and respect him. A real man knows how to treat a woman and knows how to get her to treat him. A real man is respected. A real man isn't envious, weak, proud, angry, and deceitful nor is he irresponsible. A real man is punctual and a man of his word. A real makes responsible and health-conscious decisions.
It is unfortunate that I am not a real man; however I have desperate aspirations to be one. With your help maybe one day I can become a real man.

In remembrance of 9.11

The United States of America? We're not united in our homes, neighborhoods, towns, boroughs, cities let-alone our states. Let us all strive for an urgency to be united and stand up for what's right. Treat strangers with kindness, always be loyal to friends and treat loved-ones with love always!

You are your brother's keeper.

It's actually funny to find sarcasm in the first book of the Bible when God asks Cain where Abel was. If my brother is hungry I'll feed him, emotionally wrecked I'll give him spiritual uplifting. I'll be responsible and know his whereabouts. Whenever he needs me I'll be there. I am my brother’s keeper and you are too!

When the inspirer is inspired.

First, list ten reasons why you’re fortunate to have your job. Second, list ten reasons why you’re blessed to have family and friends to be there if you’re unemployed. Then realize that no man-made mirror can define your beauty. You are beautiful! Search for the mirror... that God gave you to define your beauty. Next, use your flaws to inspire your quest to perfection. Discover that ambition to learn new things each day and use them to achieve greatness! Lastly, be wise, be courteous, be influential, be positive, be strong and fearless, and most importantly be blessed.

R.I.P. In remembrance of...

Do this in remembrance of me... Unfortunately we all have had to suffer the loss of a loved-one or friend. But we're still here. Hopefully we can live lives that are purposeful, effective and productive. Do good deeds in remembrance of a lost loved-one. Do good deeds in remembrance of Jesus.

Don't be discouraged, be content!

Don't let minuscule mishaps discourage you. You are blessed! You don't even have to watch the news to see that God has been blessing you mercifully. You are blessed alone if you can read this. Live life appreciatively. Be content and most importantly be blessed.

LIVE, LAUGH, LOVE...

Live your life to the fullest. Laugh your butt off. Love until your heart explodes!

LOVE

"Do it ALL in moderation, except LOVE!"

Psalm 91

"He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in Him shall I trust" Psalm 91 Everyone be blessed. Ladies be alert, be aware of your surroundings, be safe and enjoy your weekends.

PRAY!

"Teach me your way, O Lord; lead me in a straight path because of my oppressors." Prayer works. Did you talk to God today? Thank Him for blessing you. Thank Him for guiding you. Thank Him for protecting you. Tell him about your troubles. Prayer motivates the blessed and inspires the stressed. Talk to God today. He's a really good listener and an easy person to talk to.

Overfed and undernourished

We're all overfed but undernourished. Analyze your perception of hunger. Why do you eat? Do you eat because you are sad or depressed or because your food taste good and your flesh is craving it? Or do you eat to give your body energy to function? Finding out why you eat can be the first step in fixing your health problems.

Good Morning, let's stop destroying and restructuring the beautiful language of English. "BRB, SMH, LOL etc..." -- We're all guilty of creating our own language for convenience via text, email, even speech without realizing that we're harming our intelligence, corrupting our DNA and promoting ignorance. Practice proper speech today, all day and contribute to reputable intellect!

I'm Black and...

Put it in a book, I'LL find it!

IRead!

So much to read so little time...

Motivate your positivity

Good Morning beautiful people! Sad to say, tho sometimes ignorance might be excusable, speaking words of ignorance can make it define you and that is NOT excusable...nor is stupidity! Let's stop calling and referring to our women as bitches. Bitches do exist, but so do females, ladies, women, and Queens. Speak words of positivity and love and let it build your character!