Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Relationships
Male and Female relationships - BE VERY SELECTIVE in choosing the person you date! You can never expect to love someone unconditionally and get them to love you the same way unless you love yourself first. When you love, love like you've never loved and trust like you've never been hurt. After you love, understand that real genuine love isn't easily angered. Ask God to soften your stubborn heart and give you humility to get through your differences!
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Love all of what you're saying. I can actually relate to the struggle it takes to develop a true level of comfort within your own skin, and letting someone else love you. My only criticism is that I've heard all of this before. It's great information but its so redundant that it comes off as superficial. Sounding like the right thing without any real depth. Okay I have to love myself first, but what does that really mean?! Where do I start?!? Where and when do all these words stop being just words and really meet reality....
Genuinely Ms. Money
Thank you, loving yourself means being 100% comfortable with who you are. It means appreciating and accepting YOU and you're flaws and having no type of insecurities with yourself. This type of unconditional self-gratification is a blessing discovered once you have a relationship with your Creator. It is the type of love He has for you!
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Someone asked, "what if the relationship isnt meant to be and ur tryna force something that God didnt put together?
How can someone know if the relationship was put together by God or not?? cuz u talkin about be selective, and ppl end up selecting the wrong person, and then have to bend over backwards tryna love someone they not supposed to b with in the 1st place"
I responded, "Some guys are just NOT on your level in all aspects and vice versa. But make that clear by getting yourself together so that you can start to attract more of the 'right' people. You shouldn't be in a relationship if you have too many personal problems. Then imagine bringing the person that you're dating home to meet your parents for the first time but your parents is God. I'm hoping you would bring home the best in this scenario - selecting the right person."
Someone else asked, "i can't help but think, "why can't this apply to homosexuals also?" They love too. They go through the same relationship issues as heterosexuals"
I respond, "I guess that's a good question. Well for the most part I would love to believe that I only write about things that I have decent knowledge on. I'm sorry but I have no knowledge whatsoever on homosexual relationships with people, animals or even aliens for that matter. Also I mentioned bringing your significant other home to meet God and I would never put God and homosexual in the same sentence.
On another note, I think there's someone out there for EVERYONE. God made Eve so Adam wouldn't have sex with animals. I don't think God intended for you to be alone.
Just making it clear what type of relationships I was speaking about. I wouldn't give inspiration on something I don't know anything about. However you're free to apply anything I say to any situation or relationship you're in. I can assure you that my advice on heterosexual relationships will work. But if someone is in a homosexual relationship and they take my advice and it doesn't work then they can't blame me."
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